No one can offend me. Someone can say insulting things to me, but they will not offend me in any way.
It's impossible to fight with me. If someone tries to fight with me, I will not join them, and there will be no fight. Because in order to fight, both participants must be involved in the process.
I can be told that I live in the wrong way, I do something wrong, I’m not like I should be. I will respond respectfully, thank them for sharing their opinion, and move on with my life, doing what is right for me.
Because I know myself - who I am and who I am not. I know what is right for me, what I want to do with my life, what is my path.
Do I want to hear people's opinions on issues I didn’t ask them about? Quite frankly, I just accept reality and respect the freedom of other people. We cannot change reality, much less other people. Every person is free to have their own opinion, express it, and act as they can and want to.
At the same time, we can be true to ourselves, remain strong and not depend on the opinions of others and stereotypes generally accepted in society.
In order to be able to do that, each person need to find their unique answers to critical questions:
Who I am
Who I am not
What are my strengths
What is my path
Being yourself is your strength and freedom. When we know who we are, we find strength and confidence in ourselves and no one can lower our self-esteem or lead us astray.
My superpower as a coach and as a person is to help you discover your strength and build your self-confidence. If you want to start this journey, please choose a convenient time slot for our first meeting: