Being yourself is your strength and freedom.

No one can offend me. Someone can say insulting things to me, but they will not offend me in any way.

It's impossible to fight with me. If someone tries to fight with me, I will not join them, and there will be no fight. Because in order to fight, both participants must be involved in the process.

I can be told that I live in the wrong way, I do something wrong, I’m not like I should be. I will respond respectfully, thank them for sharing their opinion, and move on with my life, doing what is right for me.

Because I know myself - who I am and who I am not. I know what is right for me, what I want to do with my life, what is my path.

Do I want to hear people's opinions on issues I didn’t ask them about? Quite frankly, I just accept reality and respect the freedom of other people. We cannot change reality, much less other people. Every person is free to have their own opinion, express it, and act as they can and want to.

At the same time, we can be true to ourselves, remain strong and not depend on the opinions of others and stereotypes generally accepted in society.

In order to be able to do that, each person need to find their unique answers to critical questions:

• Who I am

• Who I am not

• What are my strengths

• What is my path

Being yourself is your strength and freedom. When we know who we are, we find strength and confidence in ourselves and no one can lower our self-esteem or lead us astray.

My superpower as a coach and as a person is to help you discover your strength and build your self-confidence. If you want to start this journey, please choose a convenient time slot for our first meeting:

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What internal needs do I satisfy by leading a team and growing the business?

Sometimes we feel that we are different from other people. But we cannot explain why. Coaching can help us provide the answer, and make this difference the source of our strength.

All my life I could never stand aside from the problems of other people. My friends often asked me: "Why are you doing this? Why are you investing so much effort, time and money in people you don't know well? You should think about yourself first."

I heard their question, but I could not find the answer then. I didn’t understand why I was doing this, but I couldn’t do otherwise.

The answer eventually came to me through the most impactful coaching session for me as a client – a session to define my life mission.

Whether we know this or not, every one of us has a mission. The mission is not a construct we come up with, it's the unique driving force of our lives based on our deepest values.

Coaching has various techniques and methods to find answers to these questions at conscious and subconscious levels, and then to check the truth and authenticity of the answers found. As it turned out in my case, one of my three main life missions is to make this world and the lives of all living beings better. Uncovering this filled my life with a deep understanding of who I am and why I do everything I do.

Awareness of our mission and purpose helps us understand ourselves and our motivations:

• What am I living for?

• Why do I live the way I live?

• Why do I do what I do?

• Why do I work where I work?

• Why don't I allow myself to do certain things?

• Why does it take so long for me to let go?

• What internal needs do I satisfy by leading a team and growing the business?

• Why am I growing my business, beyond making money?

Finding answers and understanding our mission helps to fill our life with greater meaning, awareness, fulfillment and allows us to be uniquely ourselves. As a coach, I can support you on this journey.

As a first step, I invite you to schedule an introductory video call for us to meet and discuss our plan for moving forward.

Why are some people unhappy and is there an antidote?

I have been looking for the answer to this question for many years and asking numbers of people whether they were happy.

Interestingly, when answering this question, people never say simply "yes" or "no". They go straight to the arguments in support of their happiness or unhappiness.

If not happy, they list the things that hinder their happiness:

• I don’t have a proper partner for me

• I've always dreamed of living in a house by the river, but it's still not the case

• I hate my job and don’t have passive income not to work, etc

When I ask, “Is there anything good in your life?” they say, “Do you want me to compare myself to someone whose situation is worse than mine? Understanding that someone in this world lives worse than me does not make me feel better.”

Of course, it doesn't. You can't compare yourself to anyone, only to yourself.

"How I was yesterday - How I am today - How I will be in the future."

The key thing is, unhappy people focus on what they lack, rather than what they already have.

Happy people list arguments supporting their happiness:

• I want to find a partner, but there are benefits to being single

• I earn enough for a comfortable life

• I work long hours, but I love my job

• I have a lot of interests and hobbies

Happy people never talk about what they lack and enjoy the simple pleasures of this world - a free afternoon, a beautiful sky, or time with their loved ones.

Being happy or unhappy is a choice we make consciously or unconsciously. This choice informs our pattern of thinking, how we interpret the events and periods of our lives.

Through my coaching practice, I have seen numerous unhappy people remain unhappy after getting the right partner, the house by the river and financial wellbeing. When a person looks for things they lack, they are guaranteed to find them.

What's the antidote to continuing this cycle? Learning to be happy in the present, without conditions. Happiness can be learned.

It's not enough to understand this as a concept, we need to continuously track the limiting beliefs and gradually replace the thought pattern from lacking to flourishing.

If you are this person who is waiting for something to happen in the future in order to become happy, I am here to help you. I know how to do it, and I promise I can teach you too.

To start I invite you to schedule an introductory video call for us to meet, discuss your situation and develop a plan for moving forward.